
Why So Many People Feel Insecure During Sex
Sex can trigger insecurities because it’s intensely vulnerable. Think about it: you’re exposing your body, your desires, your sensations, and sometimes your emotions – all at once. That’s a lot!

Sex can trigger insecurities because it’s intensely vulnerable. Think about it: you’re exposing your body, your desires, your sensations, and sometimes your emotions – all at once. That’s a lot!

Let’s be real: struggling to reach orgasm is more common than anyone admits.
If you’ve ever wondered, “Why can’t I orgasm?”, you are definitely not alone. And spoiler alert: it’s almost never just about “technique.”

The biggest lie we’ve been sold about sex is good sex is supposed to look effortless, perfect, and mind-blowing every time.

You’re not broken. You’re not doing it wrong. And you’re not alone. Feeling disconnected during sex is one of the most common experiences I hear about as a sex coach – and it’s something we can understand, normalize, and work with.

Let’s just get this out of the way: masturbation is normal, healthy, and absolutely nothing to be ashamed of.

Finding a condom wrapper on a beach trail got me thinking about one of the most common sexual fantasies: sex outdoors. Let’s talk about why the idea is so appealing—and how to explore it responsibly.
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