Hi, I'm Sandy

Certified Clinical Sex Coach & Creator of Unmuted

Let's be honest

Most of us didn’t grow up talking openly about sex, desire, or intimacy. We learned to stay quiet, to avoid “the awkward stuff,” and to pretend we had it all figured out.

I started Unmuted because I know how powerful it can be to finally have a place to talk — really talk — about the things that matter most in our intimate lives.

I realized that so much of what keeps us stuck isn’t a lack of love — it’s a lack of language, permission, and space to explore what we truly want.

Now, I help others find that space.

My Approach

As a board certified clinical sex coach, sexologist and master sexpert, I combine education, empathy, and honest conversation to help people explore their sexuality and relationships with confidence and curiosity.

This isn’t therapy — it’s  coaching.

That means we focus on possibility, pleasure, and the present moment. Together, we get curious about what’s working, what you want more of, and how to create connection that feels alive and real.

You set the tone. You lead the pace. My role is to guide, support, and sometimes lovingly challenge you to step into your full expression — whether that’s solo, with a partner, or in a multi-partner dynamic.

What I Believe

Sex should be talked about openly, joyfully, and without shame

Pleasure is not selfish — it’s essential

Communication is the foundation of connection

Curiosity creates freedom

Everyone deserves to feel seen, desired, and heard

Sex should be talked about openly, joyfully, and without shame

Pleasure is not selfish — it’s essential

Communication is the foundation of connection

Curiosity creates freedom

Everyone deserves to feel seen, desired, and heard

Who I Work With

Unmuted is an inclusive space for anyone and everyone of all orientations, genders, and relationship styles.

  • Exploring your desires and what turns you on
  • Wanting more intimacy or play in your relationship
  • Navigating mismatched desire or communication blocks
  • Opening your relationship or defining what monogamy means to you
  • Simply ready to feel more confident and connected in your body

You’re welcome here!

Outside of Coaching

When I’m not coaching, you’ll probably find me exploring nature – whether it be the mountains of Colorado or the beaches of Puerto Rico, indulging in great food and great conversation, or spending time with my incredible family. I believe in living fully — in curiosity, laughter, and the messy, beautiful realness of being human.

Invitation

You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to be willing to start the conversation. This is your permission to truly step into what you deserve.

If you’re ready to explore what pleasure, intimacy, and confidence can really feel like — I’d love to connect.

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